How To Get A Serious Relationship - Using Rejection To Pave The Way To TRUE Success
By C. Hopkins Most men aren’t skillful or successful when it comes to meeting and dating women and having a serious relationship. There are two main reasons for not attaining a serious relationship: they don’t get out there and sell themselves, meet women and make connections. And when, once in every blue moon, they do try to have a serious relationship with a girl, they fall flat on their faces, not knowing how to handle the situation, the conversation, the interaction and attraction. There’s a single word that ties these two reasons for failure to have a serious relationship together, it’s rejection. Men who would love to meet and date a beautiful girl and have a serious relationship choose not to go out and actually try to make it happen, on the most part, because of a deep-seated fear of rejection. They hate the idea that instead of a serious relationship they might get shot down and embarrassed. And they know that if they try their hardest and STILL get rejected, they definitely have no hope with women, now or ever. So, they prefer to stay at home with the vague ambition that one day they might make something happen. On the other hand, there are men out there that do try to meet and get together with girls and have a serious relationship - and, unfortunately, they get rejected every now and then. Once it’s happened a couple of times, those serious relationship brush-offs take their toll on the guy: his confidence dwindles, his sense of humor begins to fade, and most noticeably, his motivation vanishes. He becomes like 80% of the rest of the male population: a serious relationship dreamer and not a serious relationship do’er. The first thing you need to do is recognize the POSITIVE function rejection serves. You need to define it in your mind the serious relationship rejection. What is it and what does it mean? Serious relationship rejection often comes in the following forms:Serious relationship rejection form # 1. You’ve been talking to a girl for a while and things seem to be going well but when you ask to see her again or suggest swapping numbers she suddenly freezes up on you and shuts you out. Serious relationship rejection form #2. You try to get talking to a girl but she only gives you the minimal amount of recognition possible and doesn’t allow you to start a real conversation. Serious relationship rejection form #3. You’ve been on a couple of dates with a girl but have yet to take it further. When you try to progress the relationship, she clams up and becomes distant and seemingly uninterested. Whatever type of serious relationship rejection you’ve experience or fear the most, you need to fully recognise what it is. It’s a sign that one or more components of your serious relationship game - that is, your ability to be successful with women - isn’t functioning correctly. It’s like a flashing red light in a submarine, it’s telling you something ain’t right and, most importantly, that you need to DO something to fix it. That’s the key point most men consistently miss about a serious relationship - they think being rejected is the end of the line, game over. In fact, it’s simply a changing of the tracks on your path to success. So don’t take serious relationship rejection too hard…it is only a minor roadblock that is easily bypassed. Read more about how to overcome this roadblock in GuyGetsGirl, an ebook written by a woman that discusses how to win the dating game and score a serious relationship. Follow the link in the author’s bio box to go to the GuyGetsGirl homepage. To read reviews about the top selling and most effective dating services on the web go to datingservicesreviewed.wordpress.com Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=C._Hopkins http://EzineArticles.com/?How-To-Get-A-Serious-Relationship—Using-Rejection-To-Pave-The-Way-To-TRUE-Success&id=371625 incest xxx incest stories porn big incest family father daughters lesbian incest father daughter lesbians
